Monday, May 17, 2010

New Moms

After the first two vague blogs, I didn't feel like blogging. when I started it, everyone were doing it, so I did it :). For a while I was thinking of starting with cooking blogs.....there are 1000s I found out, so was thinking about good subject :) which will interest me.

Talking to my cousin yesterday I thought it was a good idea to talk about new moms and their problems to raise their young ones.

Shall I start with pregnancy first?
Feeling about the life inside you? But can't express it? You are body is feeling different? Feeling sick/No - not at all - is it OK? Getting emotional? Having lots of scenes - fights/crying - with the better half? - Don't worry you are normal, its just the hormones doing it....... it will continue and get worst with cravings, body enlargements.

First trimester is all about getting used to the happiness, sickness, fear etc.
Second trimester is about cravings, emotions, kicking/movements of the baby - happiness continues, sickness/fear also for some.
Third trimester more cravings, more movements, more happiness, more of everything leads to tiredness and wait for the baby to arrive.

That's pregnancy in short........let me start with the baby arriving.......
Baby next to you.....wow! what a feeling! I don't think anyone can sum up the emotions in few words. All the pain you went thro in past few months and more in past few hours just disappears the moment you see that bundle.

Now starts the actual problem........to stay thro your life, but this is the problem which you welcome with open arms, lots of hugs, kisses, such love you never knew existed within you.

First few days is a real ordeal......what with your hormones, baby's needs and the suggestions of people around you will lead to is unimaginable. So this is where you need to brace yourself and take control.

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